Men are constantly wondering what it is that women really want in a man. What the qualities are that women are looking for, and what makes a relationship more likely to last.
I am constantly asked this question from men all over the world, “What do women look for in a man”, or “What women want in a relationship”? My answer is always the same, learn to master two basic principle, which are touch and eye contact. These are the skills to attract women that will increase your success with women.
Master the art of eye contact.
Start with the basics. A good practice you can do is to look at yourself in the mirror, and hold eye contact with yourself for a good five minutes.
Play with different facial expressions. Try to send intention through your eyes. Look at yourself and tell yourself, “I’m bored,” and try to say that with just your eyes. Try different thoughts, such as “I’m happy”, or “I think you’re sexy” ,or “I want you bad”.
All of these things can be said with the eyes. It’s been said that your eyes are the mirror to your soul, and with women, this is especially true. Women are big on non-verbal cues, and eye contact is a must. Learn to communicate with them with just your eyes alone.
Do this for a good five minutes every day. You can do it for five minutes at a time, you can do it five minutes in the morning, and then five minutes at night. Practice this for a couple of weeks, and then put it to use and get feedback from a female friend.
Getting feedback from a female friend is a must.
Once you think you’ve got it down pat practicing in a mirror, get the help of a female friend and see how well you’ve really understood the concept. Go out with your friend, and practice it when you’re out and about. Just being able to communicate with your eyes is massive, being able to look at a woman and have her know your intent is one of the things that women look for in a man.
You can actually communicate these things without a word being spoken. Women are masters of body language like nothing I’ve ever seen. Once your friend has given you positive feedback, and you feel like you’ve got it down, take it out in the field. Feedback from your friend should reinforce your confidence, and with that, take it out in the real world and use it to get a woman’s attention.
Now, master the art of touch.
Women love touch. They crave touch. This is one of the things that women look for in men; the ability to be touched and caressed.
You can practice touching women when you’re out running errands, in a mall, a coffee shop, or in a grocery store. Anywhere actually. You can touch them on their hand, the side of their arm, maybe a touch on the shoulder. Practice incidental touch. A good way would be to brush past a woman, and touch her in an non-obvious fashion. There are all kinds of ways to initiate a touch without being obvious about it.
Once you feel comfortable with this, progress to a social situation, like a bar or a club for instance. Create a situation where your bodies are close together, where you’re facing her, touching her face, touching her hair, and then hopefully it will take off from there.
Set goals for yourself.
I like to make a game out of it. A good game you can play is what I call the points game. You get a couple of points for touching her on the hand, five points for touching her arm, ten points for touching her body, twenty points for touching her legs or thighs, forty points for touching her face or hair, fifty points for kissing a girl, a hundred points for getting a blowjob, and sex can be two hundred points. Just make it into a game. You get the point.
Then it’s less about getting caught up on what to say, where to touch, what to do, and more about getting out there and putting what you’ve learned into practice. When you do that, you’ll find that, in a couple of weeks your touching women and getting good at it. With practice comes experience, and with experience comes success. A very good source of information would be Pandora’s Box, which is chock full of advice on female psychology and understanding women.
If you are sincere in your efforts to learn what women really want in a man, then master the concepts I have mentioned above. These are the qualities that women look for, and desire. Learn these concepts, and learn them well, and you will have any woman eating out of your hand.