Where is love? In working with guys who are on the path of self-development and improving their success in dating, how much does that overlap with the places where they might often find love?
There is no “magic place” to where love is. In reality, love is everywhere. People are always searching for what is the true meaning of love, when if they just opened their eyes to the world, they’ll notice that love surrounds them.
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There are two metaphysical philosophical answers to where love is.
The first answer is love is everywhere. It’s true. When you first experienced love, the first time you ever fell in love, you went from being a complete non-believer to someone who couldn’t question what you were experiencing. You felt like you finally knew what the deep feelings of love finally meant?
The meaning of love became so inexplicably evident. You noticed it everywhere, and it made you feel more connected. You felt more connected to your partner. You felt more connected to the environment around you and to the people around you. This included both the people you were really close to and maybe some people who you found that their personalities challenged you a bit.
The second answer is that love resides in each of us. In order for other people to love us, we really need to be able to love ourselves first. In order to be able to love our partner and be able to appreciate our partner, we first need to love and appreciate ourselves. For some people that is an ongoing process. I think when guys are looking for love often they are looking for it in all the wrong places. You need to find love within yourself before you can feel it in anyone else.
Once a guy sees love as something that is everywhere and inside of people, it opens up new possibilities in terms of the types of girls that he meets.
You’ll start to appreciate your environment and the world around you more. You’ll start to feel more connected to things. You’ll stop feeling like you need to grasp on to things tightly hoping that they might be the solution to love, because you’re now able to experience an abundance of love everywhere around you. Imagine that you are a guy who is a cup and that cup is being absolutely filled up to the brim with love.
It’s just this abundance of love that is overwhelming because you see it everywhere around you and feel it deep inside your core. It’s spilling out over the edges. When you feel it spilling over the edges you’re not afraid to give into it, because you realize the more you give the more you’ll get back. You no longer feel the need to cling too tightly to it, to hope for it because you already feel it’s presence in your life.
This frees people up to be able to give more in your direction.You’ll probably notice with people that are successful in their own life they have this certain aura about them. They are completely happy and comfortable exactly as they are, and where they are. People just naturally gravitate towards them, people want to be around them, and people go out of their way to send them love and appreciation. This is how to attract a girl.
Instead of wondering what is love, find it within yourself first. This will give you all the answers you are searching for. Once you find it within yourself, and learn to love yourself, you’ll notice and feel it everywhere around you. You’ll no longer be wondering where love is. You’ll have the answers from within.
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