Sick of the club scene and looking for ways to meet more high quality women?
There’s better places where tons of sexy single women will eagerly approach you, all you have to do is be there…
You don’t need bars and clubs…
Here’s how I’m going to put it: guys should get out there and jump on every opportunity. Go online and type in “speed dating.” Type in “meet ups.” There are girls who are actively searching… so find them. I personally encourage a healthy mix of both online dating and personal dating, because if you only do online dating, you’re going to find you might not have all the skills to take that action any further. On the other hand, online dating does provide plenty of opportunities to practice your conversation skills.
Do online dating.
Definitely jump into online dating right now. Meet-ups are everywhere now… so you can meet a group of women, instead of just one. In fact, go into your calendar right now and look forward at the next four months, and write yourself a dating schedule for meet ups and speed dating events. Then pay for them.
First, you’re going to save a lot of money by booking these events well ahead of schedule, and these events are also a lot cheaper than going out on individual dates over the weekend. Secondly, you’re going to learn a lot more by interacting with a large volume of women: you’ll build attributes and traits that are attractive, just by taking initiative. And thirdly, by paying for all of these events ahead of time, you’ll be locking in your involvement. You’re a lot less likely to chicken out at the last moment if you’ve already put your money down for an event.
Guys get demoralized way too easily by over-thinking things, or by giving up after their first rejection at a bar or a club. By going to these events and taking a more proactive stance, you will be really enhancing your chances to find girls who are also looking. Women are truly plentiful at meet up events, or on online dating sites.
Know what you want at these events.
Go in there with a list of things that you would like to see in girls, the qualities and attributes that you are looking for in a girl. Then, when you go in and meet these girls, it becomes very similar to an interview process. It is more of an audition than a date. Do not be shy to say that you are looking for a woman who can play a particular role, whatever that may be. Perhaps a friend, a girlfriend, a wife, or even the mother of your kids. Be honest.
Whatever it is, tell her, and then just find out if she meets those criteria. At the same time, you should not be too serious when you are asking these things. You are finding out these things about her with a smile on your face and making it a fun interaction by being genuinely curious whether she has these traits or not.
Do you have questions about finding girls? Ask in the comments below and I’ll answer your questions personally.
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