If you’ve met, dated, or had women as friends, I’m sure you’ve wondered many times why are women so crazy.
They’re completely irrational at times. They’re totally unpredictable. What they say and what they actually respond to never align. There are a lot of wild and crazy women out there, and as a result, they can actually drive you just as crazy. That is, unless you’ve learned to get inside a woman’s head.
For me, because I understand the nine unique personalities that women exhibit, their actions never really seem that unpredictable. In fact, I would go so far as to say the opposite. Once you understand their unique personality, you will completely understand women.
More often than not, a woman’s crazy behavior is completely predictable, and because it’s predictable, you should be able to know exactly what to say and do to maximize her attraction for you.
Acknowledge that every woman is unique, as well as acknowledging every woman is the same.
Sounds like an oxymoron doesn’t it? It’s really important to acknowledge both the uniqueness of individual women and the sameness that they share with other women, or at the very least, other women that fit their personality type.
This will allow you to focus on the 20 percent of characteristics and traits that 80 percent of women respond to while also allowing you to make some more tweaks for individual women that will heighten her attraction.
So, what are some of the 20 percent of things that 80 percent of women will respond to positively?
Number one: You need to be as solid as a rock.
Because of the emotional, irrational nature of many women, she needs you to be a completely emotionally stable individual. You need to be the rock that she can cling to.
Women have a thing called female hormones. Men joke about it all the time. When her hormones kick in and she just loses focus and complete control, it helps to have someone who isn’t affected by her irrational outburst. Women and emotions are many times determined by the hormonal changes that are taking place.
If you think of her crazy behavior as being like a bushfire completely out of control because you’re the type who doesn’t have good control over your own emotions, it will be like adding fuel to the fire.
On the other hand, if you’re someone who is cool and calm under pressure, it will be like throwing ice water on the fire. You’ll completely cool her down – something that she’ll be extremely grateful for.
Number two: Having a Dominant nature is key.
Women respond to dominance. This is not just an attraction switch for humans but rather for all females regardless of species. Being dominant doesn’t mean you need to make a woman fear you but rather you just need to have great leadership qualities that she will absolutely respond to.
This is one of the reasons it’s vitally important that a man approaches a woman from the outset, as well as why it’s important for him to get her number and organize the date. Take command from the start and exert your dominance as the alpha male. You’ll have her instantly attracted and command her attention.
Furthermore, it is absolutely critical that you as the man to move the interaction in a sexual direction. When you become successful at leading a woman towards sex and making her feel good about it, you’ll find that she is no longer crazy around you. Or at least if she is, it’s in all the right ways.
Number three: Use the punish and reward system.
A crazy woman will only be crazy as much as you let her be. When you learn to develop a level of expectation that doesn’t allow a woman’s crazy behaviors to dominate the scene, she will actually respond in a positive way.
This might be a crude analogy, but imagine training a puppy on what you see as appropriate behavior. When the puppy does something good, what do you do? What about when it does something bad? What do you do then? Generally speaking, when it does something good, you want to reward it.
You want to let it know that this is the type of behavior that is expected. When it doesn’t do the right thing, you will usually punish it. You might lock it away in another room for a while and remove your attention, or you might give it a stern word and let it know in no uncertain terms that you won’t tolerate this behavior.
The same approach can help you effectively train the women in your life. And no, I’m not talking about locking her in a room somewhere. Let’s not be literal here. When a woman acts crazy, locking her in a room would be inhumane, plus you’ll most likely end up with the police paying you a visit.
But what you might do is remove your attention from her. The reason this is so powerful is when a woman acts a little crazy, this is generally what she is looking for – more attention.
They basically become child-like, and children will seek attention, it doesn’t matter whether it’s positive or negative. It’s much better if positive reinforcement works, but when a woman starts acting crazy, what’s a man to do?
When you ignore her and take your attention away from her and show her that you’re not going to respond to her childish behavior, not only does she start to change her behavior but she also becomes more attracted to you. She recognizes that you’re someone who’s not going to put up with her bullshit. This is really critical and important for women.