Are you asking yourself the question, why is it so hard to get laid?
The answer is, IT IS NOT, all you have to do is follow some simple tips and you will be sleeping with more girls than you dreamed possible.
You might be finding it really hard right now to get results with girls.
What I want to do is take the mystery out of why it’s so hard to get laid. I want to give you the most important, number one thing for getting results with girls. It’s time to make it stop it feeling so hard to get laid. Ultimately, I want to make it easy to get girls. But I’m going to be brutally honest, and maybe even hurt your feelings. It’s worth it though. Imagine how good it will be when it’s not so hard to get laid anymore.
Getting laid doesn't have to be hard... lean back and learn how
Getting laid is simple.
This advice is going to turn getting laid and having sex with girls into a very simple, easy-to-follow formula. You are going to have no trouble understanding why you are not getting results, and how you can change that. It’s no accident whether you are having sex with girls or not, whether you have girls that want to have sex with you or you don’t, or whether you have an abundance of sex in your life or you don’t. It’s actually caused by an unsurprising reality, if you think about it. I once read a famous quote that failure is not a cataclysmic event, nor is success. That’s very true. The reason you are in this situation right now is no great accident, it’s no great mystery. If it’s hard to get laid for you there must be a reason…
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The number one, most important thing for you getting laid that you can measure and improve on is very simple. It’s the amount of time you are spending with girls in situations where things can get intimate.
It’s that simple. This might be spending time at your house or her house, or times you are on a date. But there is a direct relationship between how often you will get laid and the amount of time you spend in situations where getting laid is even possible. It’s just math. It won’t be so hard to get laid anymore, if you put yourself into more of these private situations.
Put yourself in more intimate situations.
Maybe you’ve taken a girl on a romantic walk, or done other things with girls in the past, and that’s great, but I want you to think back to last month. Count the total amount of time that you spent alone with a girl, just the two of you. Now think about how much opportunity there was for you two to be intimate, maybe to kiss, maybe to touch, maybe to go further, during that private time. Add up that time. If it’s less than 5 hours, or even less than 10 hours, you probably won’t get any sex at all. If you don’t put in the time, it won’t be hard to get laid – it will be impossible.
Have a plan to be one-on-one.
So it’s important to focus on increasing this figure. Every aspect of your dating strategy and learning to be good with girls needs to be focused around spending more time with girls in one-on-one situations where the two of you can be intimate together. If you increase your private time with girls, you’ll understand why right now it’s so hard to get laid. Because the more time you spend with women, the easier it will be.
This is the most critical aspect to getting laid there is. I want to keep repeating it, until you get it in your head. You need to spend more time alone with girls. If it’s hard to get laid or easy to get laid, ultimately it comes down to how much time you spend alone with girls. Now, if you are at a point in your life where you don’t seem to have any opportunity to spend time alone with girls, you need to make some dramatic changes. Be willing to change every aspect of your life and yourself to start getting more success with girls.
You can stick your head in the sand, or you can begin to make changes and improve your situation and improve your amount of chances to get laid. If you can follow the advice in this blog and some simple tips and pieces of advice, it will be very easy for you to begin getting the results you deserve. It’s time to really stop it being hard to get laid and make it EASY.
Some ways to become more confident with sex and think more like a guy that gets laid:
- Write a list of sexual adventures you’d like to have and put these in your journal/blog.
- Write a summary of your sexual experience so far.
- Write about what you like about intimacy, women and sex. Visualize it often, so it feels possible.
- Write about any negative programming you have with sex. Meditate on removing it.
- Write about your parents’ and your own cultural programming about sex. Think about starting to make your own decisions.
- Write about how you see yourself as a sexual person. Remind yourself of this all day long.
Here is my cast iron promise to you, watch this video and you will have a choice of women to sleep with by the end of the week:
Guaranteed.
