Avoid the common mistakes that lead to heartbreak and enjoy bliss with the perfect girlfriend for you…
There are some common mistakes guys make when asking a woman to be their girlfriend.
Read on for all the details.
She will be happy... if you make her work for you
Don’t rush.
For one thing, guys rush it too much. They’re in such a hurry to get a girlfriend because they think that that’s what needs to be done, but all it really does is put pressure on the girl. Another common mistake is that guys want to make a girl their girlfriend without her actually feeling like she deserves it. She feels like there’s no reason why he would want her to be a girlfriend other than the fact that he probably just is needy and wants a woman’s attention.
Make her win you over.
Part of the problem is that, especially with attractive girls, some guys are too quick to be sold by them. That’s why it’s important to “qualify” women – take the attitude that when we meet women that we’re interested, we’re not sold right away. That changes everything, because an attractive girl is used to having guys fall over in front of her, trying to win her over. If you’re the sort of guy that shows that you’re not going to be sold until she’s proven herself, that can be really attractive to her.
Have sex with her.
Another mistake guys make is trying to make a girl their girlfriend before they’ve had sex with her. There’s this idea that girls don’t want to have sex unless they’re in a committed relationship, and that’s not necessarily true. It’s actually a lot easier, at least in my opinion, if you worry about building up a relationship after you’ve had sex with her. Sometimes, this can actually be tricky, and you get caught up in a situation where things aren’t escalating towards a sexual place, that getting into any sort of relationship with her ends up taking unnecessary months and months and months.
The other side of it is, she might actually want sex. Guys aren’t the only ones who like sex! It’s a great way to get a girl to like you. It’s also a lot easier to build up a relationship or get a girlfriend after you both have sex, because that’s a big bonding experience. Even if things are moving in a direction of casual sex, that can eventually lead to seeing her a bit more often and the potential for your being able to make her your girlfriend.
Talk less… and observe more.
It’s easy to say the wrong thing when you ask a girl to be your girlfriend, too. The issue isn’t so much what you say but how soon you say it. The truth is that you don’t even necessarily have to say anything. A lot of it can just be noted through what’s happening, through the actions you both take. If you’re talking to a girl on a day to day basis, she’s pretty much your girlfriend, and if she’s reciprocating and talking back to you on a day to day basis and going out of her way to contact you quite regularly, then asking her to be your girlfriend is not only the next logical step, but you’re pretty much there already.
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