We receive many letters regarding women and sexuality. Following is an example, but all fall into the same line; are women sexual creatures?
Dear Vin,
I frequently hear that women like sex as much as men, but from my experience I have yet to witness this. Part of the reason may be that I’m not being sexual enough. I’m wondering how sexual I can actually be with women and how responsive she’s going to be with talking about things like sex toys and sex in general. Do women think about it and talk about it as much as we guys do?
Sadi from North Dakota
What has been your experience with women and sexuality? Do you find them wanting sex as badly as you do? Please comment in the box below. I respond personally to all comments.
Women are sexual creatures. Dip your toes into the waters of her desire!
Evidence of female libido is everywhere!
The sex toy industry is one of the biggest money makers out there, and guys, it’s women who buy these toys. This should demonstrate to you the truth about sexuality and women. They think about and talk about sex as much as you do. If you have ever worked around a gaggle of women, you’d realize it very quickly.
They’re just waiting for a guy like you to come along and sweep them off their feet; someone who will help her feel comfortable about her sexual desires so that she can explore having more sex. There are a lot of wild, wicked women out there. Women who want to get down and dirty, and have a good time sexually.
If women weren’t so into sex and weren’t thinking about it like they do, there wouldn’t be such a wide array of sex toy shops out there. There wouldn’t be Victoria’s Secrets or Frederick’s of Hollywood stores in almost every city. That should be proof enough that women desire and think of sex as much as guys do.
How sexual can you be when talking with a woman?
You have no idea! The line of how far sexually you can be is so far out there that most guys, even in their wildest fantasies, even when they thought they would be unbelievably sleazy and over the top, don’t even come close to crossing it. One of the things that is important is to push the boundaries and even aiming to step over the mark in order to work out where that particular line is.
I encourage guys, even as early as tonight, to go out and start being more comfortable around the topic of sex. Try asking a woman within the first three minutes what her favorite sexual position is. You can do that out of the blue, you can use games that might help you such as the twenty questions game, or you can just start to be more aware of the things she says and misinterpret them as her being sexual.
Ways to broach the subject without being offensive.
You could simply use one of your female friends as an example to be able to transition to the subject of sex. You might say, “My friend Jess was telling me that she can only orgasm when she is on top. I was under the impression that women loved doggy style, but she says that particular position does nothing for her, which really surprised me. So, what’s it like for you?”
You might also say, “Do you have a favorite position that brings you to an orgasm quicker”? There are a variety of ways you can broach the subject, but in order to be able to take sexual talk to a new level, you have to ultimately become more comfortable with the idea of being able to talk about sex in general.
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Realize that women are very sexual, and enjoy sex as much as you do. The sooner you can grasp this reality, the sooner you can jump on the bandwagon of women and sexuality. Enjoy!
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