“Are there any special words to make a girl fall in love, Vin?”
Sorry, my friend… anyone who says they can give you the exact words to make a girl fall in love with you is going for your money.
Actions speak louder than words to make a girl fall in love. Read on for simple tips you can use today…
***And when you finish reading, please share one your frustrations with women in the comments below. I’d like to help you and will try to answer each comment personally.
No one can teach you want to say to make a woman fall in love with you.
Make sure your wallet’s not visible when you ask this question… I mean it. It takes more than words to make a girl fall in love with you. What you need are actions – you need to work on yourself and be the person that she wants to fall in love with. You can’t talk your way into love, you are going to have to take action.
Be ready to lean into your fears.
The number one personality trait that will get girls to fall in love with you is courage.
It’s not a secret by any means, but guys don’t always pay attention to it. The guys that demonstrate courage are the ones who get the girls. You’ve got to have what people commonly refer to as “balls,” if you want to get a girl. But if you take it one step further than courage you will get what I call the “killer instinct,” and that’s a very helpful trait as well. Guys tend to lack courage when it comes to girls, especially girls they really like. You can watch the most tough and intimidating guy imaginable go through his life with courage and strength, and then suddenly, around a girl he thinks is smoking hot, he turns into this massive wimp. What happened to him? How can you avoid this pitfall for yourself? How can you demonstrate courage?
Avoid the pitfall, most guys fall into…
Courage can be demonstrated in every way imaginable in your life and especially with women, but you’ve got to learn to show it. First, you’ve got to remove all fear around women. Once I met a guy who commented to me, “girls are not grizzly bears.” Bears will kill you and crush your skull as you scream, but girls are… well, girls. There is no reason to have any physical fear of women at all. Sure, some of them might hurt your feelings, here and there, but you’re not going to die a horrible death. Rejection is not life-threatening, nor should it be any reason to be afraid of women. Plus, once you overcome your fears of women, you’ll attract more of them. You see, girls tend to like guys who can act without hesitation and are willing to approach them with confidence – these are the kind of that know how to make a women fall in love with them.
Women want men who face their fears.
One definition of courage says that it is the ability to confront fear, pain, danger, uncertainty, or intimidation. Physical courage is courage in the face of physical pain, hardship, death, or threat of death, while moral courage is the ability to act rightly in the face of popular opposition, shame, scandal, or discouragement. Moral courage is the only kind of courage we have to worry about when dealing with women, but that’s easy enough to achieve.
When it comes to having courage with women, this means NOT caring what people think and NOT caring about rejection. It’s about avoiding being self-conscious. You live in the physical world and don’t play out fantasies in your head all day. You don’t worrying about yourself too much, or taking any negative response to seriously. It also means that you enjoy the fact that anything could happen. You also must accept that you may not be perfectly prepared for every situation – you’ll have to think on the spot and be spontaneous. But you have faith in yourself that you can make it happen. You got this. It means not being afraid to ask her out and not worrying about what to say get her phone number, or go for a kiss.
Other guys might want to know the “perfect” time and way to do these things, but a courageous guy – he enjoys the danger of taking a risk and a chance. Go try it now. One of the best ways to develop courage is by practicing it.
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