Is she really just nagging you or is she giving you the keys to keeping her forever
Coping When a Hot Girlfriend has Attitude
There is no doubt that most men would like to have a hot girlfriend.
But if you had a hot girlfriend and she threatened to leave you because you refused to change your attitude, it might make you feel deflated and negative.
Your self confidence will probably also be affected. What you need to realize is that if your hot girlfriend decided to leave you because you wouldn’t change your attitude, this would not necessarily be a bad thing. Funnily enough, in some instances it might not be a good idea for you to change your attitude. But if it is your fault, now is the time to consider taking some important steps towards self improvement.
It just depends what your attitude is!
Equally, it depends on the attitude your hot girlfriend has towards you.
Women Who Give Positive Feedback
The beauty of a girlfriend or even just a woman who relates well to you, is that they are able to give men the best feedback about who they are and where they are in their lives. It may not have occurred to you, but women can often see you in a way that you can’t see yourself.
If you do in fact have a “bad” attitude, a hot girlfriend can help you come right.
But it’s important to know whether your hot girlfriend wants you to change your attitude because she’s trying to change who you are. Or it might be that she feels you are starting to get too needy and too caught up in the relationship. She might also feel that you simply have the attitude that you must have a hot girlfriend in your life, without really caring about the relationship.
What to do When You’ve Sussed her Attitude
When you’re clear about her reasoning, you will know how to react. If a girl is trying to change you, perhaps trying to mold you to be someone you’re not, the best advice I can offer is for you to get out of that relationship.
Chances are that if your hot girlfriend is trying to change your attitude for her own good, then she’s with some nonexistent person in her mind and trying to make you into this person.
If this is the case, then your relationship is destined to fail.
Worse still you’ll find that the relationship will become toxic for you. Whoever you are, you deserve better than that.
You also need to realize that if you start to conform to the mold she’s building for you, you won’t be the person she liked to begin with, and that in itself can end a relationship real fast. You need to be true to yourself, from an honest perspective.
If your attitude DOES need to change, then you will need to make a decision in terms of how important this hot girlfriend really is.
Assess Your Attitude
In every relationship everyone should be working on improving themselves on a regular basis. They should be getting into better shape, better health, and things like that.
The funny thing is that many people don’t actually enjoy our own company. Many men are unable to simply sit in a room for twenty-four hours on their own. They need distractions, and need to have other people around – if only on the other side of a telephone or on a social network.
Many people don’t accept and love themselves. But if you’re not happy with who you are, how can you expect others to be happy with you?
I’m not suggesting for a minute that you should be arrogant or egotistical, but loving yourself means that you have respect for yourself. This shows up in small ways, from the way you look to the way that you behave.
Questions you Should Ask Yourself
Here are three simple questions that you should think about.
- Do you take care of the way you present yourself?
- Do you wear clothes that flatter your body?
- Do you hit the gym, not for girls, but for the sake of your body, health and wellbeing?
If your hot girlfriend is pointing to an attitude that indicates you don’t care about these things, then I believe that what she is saying is something to poke your ears up at and take note of. Now is the time to concentrate on self improvement and to practice a bit of self development.
If your girlfriend is giving you that sort of insight, it actually says a lot about how she feels about you. In this instance she isn’t being nasty, she just wants you to be your best. And if you aren’t willing to change your attitude, then you can expect her to leave you.
When a hot girlfriend is critical in a positive way, it doesn’t mean she doesn’t like you; it means she knows you’re not putting the effort into life that you could be. If you don’t want to be at your best, then maybe she should go and find some other guy. It shouldn’t have to get to that point before you listen to what she has to say.
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